Discover the secrets to make a very exciting erotic massage to your man. As an eroticism professional, I will teach you simple pro techniques to achieve a devastating effect.
PREPARING FOR EROTIC MASSAGE
A bed covered with towels
To avoid any oil stains on the bed during your erotic massage, put as much towel as you need to cover it. Generally 2 towels are enough. Tip, opt for dark colored towels. Oil stains will not be seen after washing unlike clear towels.
An oil to massage
You can use the oil you want and buy it as well in a supermarket in the food department, in an organic shop or a shop specializing in massage oils. For my part, I recommend grape seed oil because it is odorless and the risk of allergy are almost zero.
A subdued light to feel good
Everything is a question of dosage. Do you also say that it is an erotic show that benefits with the eyes. So no darkness in order to visually enjoy the show, and no lighting too powerful to stay in the relaxation. Little trick, if you can not adjust the intensity of the lighting of a room, you can always turn off the one where you are, and light a room next to it. It will make an indirect light.
Erotic music for a call to sex
Plan a musical atmosphere if you can. Make a selection of music that is a call to sex. If you want a playlist of pro, I recommend the album “The Wanderings Of The Avener” of The Avener. Success assured. Soft volume. Not too light because it is not made to fall asleep, nor too loud to not have ears.
THE FUNDAMENTALS OF A GOOD EROTIC MASSAGE
Well know oil
One of the first things to learn is to know how to oil the body of your partner. Always remember to put the oil in your hand and not directly on the body. Then you put your hand on the body and lay it out. The contact of the hand is warmer and therefore more pleasant than that of the oil alone.
Then make sure to put enough oil on the area you want to massage, to avoid putting on and returning oil continuously. You put one on, you spread out and then you start to massage.
Massage the body slowly but firmly
To do the best of erotic massage, it is also necessary to massage slowly but firmly. Be careful throughout the massage to have a slow but steady pace. Men need more pressure than women because their musculature is more developed. It is 100 times more pleasant a firm hand than light. But be careful, never press on the joints like the spine, elbows, knees or others. It is very unpleasant and can hurt. Just skip it, or reduce the pressure if you go over a joint area.
Massage without taking off your partner’s hands
Move from one body location to another without ever taking your hands off your body. Nothing is more enjoyable than having a continuous rhythm and not jerky. For example, if you massage your back and then want to massage your hand, you slide your hands from the back to the shoulder, then through the arm to reach the hand. It’s the same principle regardless of the part of the body. We go from point A to point B by sliding slowly and firmly. Easy.
EROTIC MASSAGE PER STAGE
Your music is launched, the light is soft, your towels on the bed are ready and you are provided with your bottle of oil so it’s about 20 to 30 minutes of erotic massage and excitement.
For the pro side, tell your partner to get naked and sit on the belly on the pre-arranged towels then undress you in another room and join him then. You will save him the clumsy side by losing your balance by removing your socks, your stockings, your pants or other. Massaging nude will increase the visual and sensory erotic effect, and will also not oil or stain any clothing. So zero clothing operation.
2. The man is lying on his stomach
a) Back massage: 5 min
When everyone is ready, sit on your partner who is lying on your stomach and sit down his buttocks. It will be the most comfortable place to massage the upper part. You will make slips of hands from the lower back to the shoulders through the arms, hands and making a complete circle by ironing from the bottom of the back. Then repeat the operation of the big circle 5 times.
Then knead with your hands like crab claws at the level of the blanks. Your two hands knead one flank for 30 seconds then alternate on the other side and do 5 sets in all. Then put your hands clenched down the back of each side of the spine and go up to the neck. Go down with your hands open and slide to the bottom and do 5 sets in all.
b) Buttocks and sex massage: 2 min
Change position down and sitting down on your legs so you can easily massage the buttocks. Make slips on the buttocks going back up from time to time on the back. And finally, put a hand between the legs of your partner, go under her body and get his sex to rub slowly and firmly with the palm of your hand. Guaranteed erection. Then shake it for 1 minute.
c) Massage left leg then right and sex: 6 min
Change your position and sit on your knees on the outside of your partner’s leg. Make 3 sets of hands slipped from the ankle and fully raise the leg by putting your hand under his body to go on his dick. Then go back down to the ankles, and repeat the operation.
Then make 3 sets of kneading from the ankles, then go through the calves and inside of the thighs, and finish your way again passing your hand under his body to slide on his dick. Then, go the other way, and finish the number of your series.
When you have finished slipping and kneading, masturbate the sex during one good minute. Then you change your leg and start the operation again.
d) Massage of two simultaneous legs and sex: 3 min
Change your position and sit on your knees between your partner’s 2 legs. You will do 3 sets of slipped hands. You always start ankles and go back to sex. Then you go down again and start the operation again.
At the end of the 3 series, only stimulate sex for 1 minute. When done, ask your partner to turn on their back, and start the second part.
3. The man is lying on his back
a) Massage of the left leg then right and sex: 6 min
Sit on your knees on the outside of your partner’s leg. Make 3 sets of hands slipped from the ankle and go all the way up to sex. Your hands will slide from top to bottom, then from top to bottom, to descend completely on the leg to the ankle. Then repeat the operation.
Then make 3 sets of kneading from the ankles, through the calves, inside the thighs, and finish your way passing and shaking his cock 2 times.
Once done, just stimulate the sex by shaking it dynamically and then slow for a good minute. Then change your leg and repeat the operation.
b) Sex massage and orgasmic final
For the orgasmic finale, you have three positions:
– The 1st position is when you are sitting on your knees, on your side, at the level of your partner’s pelvis. This allows you to masturbate or suck your partner, and he fingers you at the same time if he wants.
– The 2nd position is where you are front or back, and sitting on your partner at the sex level. So you can rub on him and then jerk him off.
– The 3rd position is where you are in position 69. It allows you to masturbate and suck your partner while giving him an exciting view.
To make ejaculate man, I remember that the friction of masturbation or oral sex is fast, and the more it creates excitement in man and facilitates ejaculation.
Regarding the handjob, put oil on his cock, and slide your hands alternately only from top to bottom. Then change direction by doing only from bottom to top. Then put a hand on his testicles so as to bring a very good sensation of heat, and jerk the cock of the other hand quickly until ejaculation.
Regarding blowjob, do not put oil on the cock. Saliva is enough to lubricate. Just put some speed to create a maximum of sensation, and make the man cum. After, free to choose the final orgasmic you want: handjob, blowjob, or both at the same time.
TIP TO AVOID PLAYING TOO QUICKLY
If you see that the man is about to cum during the sex massage and you do not want him to enjoy right away, stop the sex massage, and massage another area of the body to lower momentarily the ‘excitation. Turn back to stimulate sex when you feel that his excitement has diminished enough.