This last decade, sextoys became more democratic a lot, and almost all the women today have one or several sextoys for an individual use.
Nevertheless, the businesses which sell these sextoys know that there is also another consumers’ target quantitatively very important and which is much less exploited, they are the couples. And as quite good commercial, these stores changed a lot communications strategy to incite the couples to buy their products. For that purpose, they promise to the couples of new pleasures counterparts their romps, of reboost their libido, etc. Well unfortunately for these storekeepers, I do not share completely the same point of view.
THE WOMEN PREFER THE USE OF A SEXTOY SOLO
To start with, if the women appreciate the use solo of a sextoy, it is not the same story in couple.
Compensate for partner’s absence
When the women are alone and use sextoys, it is to compensate for partner’s absence. Thus when they have a partner, it is useless and contradictory that a man proposes them a sextoy for their session of kiss. What they want, it is the real cock, and more the cock or the other plastic substitution toys.
Muscle their vagina
On the over hand, you have the women who use some sextoys to muscle and tone the muscle of their vagina to feel and get more sensations. It is exercises which the women can do only only. Thus that does not become integrated either within the framework of the couple.
2 PROBLEMS OF THE SEXTOY IN A COUPLE
Now we go to see on the side of the couples which use sextoys. Technically, when a man uses a sextoy on his wife during their romps, the latter can get to this one much sensations, see more sensations than the man. We could say to themselves that it is positive, but that raises 2 problems.
The man delegates his role
The 1st problem, it is because the man delegates his role to give some pleasure to a plastic thing. And I want to say, why to delegate this role to a plastic thing, when you can make it yourself.
The man is inferior to a sextoy
The 2nd problem, if a sextoy gives more pleasure than the man, it means that the man has a performance level lower than a plastic thing.
When you are conscious of these 2 points, you understand that there is a real problem.
MEN ARE 100 TIMES AS SUCCESSFUL AS THE SEXTOYS
It is necessary to know that even if some sextoys are very successful and very orgasmic, men have a potential of performance 100 times upper to these sextoys. Unfortunately, the majority of the men do not reach this potential because they miss them knowledge, and this is why some use unconsciously sextoys with their partner.
Thus what I shall advise to the men, it is not to use sextoys to re-revitalize their couple while they fuck, but rather to improve and to progress to be superior to a plastic toy. By improving you, you will win at it on all the plans, and you go to get much more intense sensations to the women than the best of sextoys.
Besides, for the men who would also think that a sextoy has all the same a utility to facilitate a work of dilation at the woman, I shall tell them that all that sextoys can make, your fingers can make it.
To conclude, the manufacturers of sextoys are satisfied with the lack of skills of numerous men to propose in the couples, not the articles which increase the skills, but by articles which maintain the men in an insufficient level of performance to be able to sell a multitude of objects which compensate for their level. That it is one thing very important to understand. Thus, if you exceed the commercial communication set up by porn lobbies where we present you the use of sextoys within the couple as were something magic, which gives a boost to the libido, which re-revitalizes the couple, etc, you understand that in the end the sextoys harms the sexuality of a couple, because they maintain the male partner in a low level of performance. As I am used to saying, when we are successful, we have not need for accessories.
And last thing, in sextoy, there is toy. And the men that do not use toys. Toys it is for the kids. Then be chaps and become successful.